{"id":649,"date":"2013-08-15T20:30:35","date_gmt":"2013-08-15T20:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.star-k.org\/articles\/?p=649"},"modified":"2026-05-05T15:40:02","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T15:40:02","slug":"the-halachic-guide-to-kiddush","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.star-k.org\/articles\/kashrus-kurrents\/649\/the-halachic-guide-to-kiddush\/","title":{"rendered":"The Halachic Guide to Kiddush"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Published Winter 2009<\/em><\/p>\n<p>One of the most beautiful scenes in <em>Yiddishkeit<\/em> is the family gathered around the table for <em>Kiddush<\/em>,\u00a0 a special moment for which we wait all week.\u00a0 On <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, the beautiful melody<a id=\"_ftnref1\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><sup>1<\/sup><\/a> ushers in each of the <em>Shalosh Regalim<\/em> with much excitement.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Although we are quite familiar with how to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em>, it is important to review the <em>halachos<\/em> related to this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>A.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><em>Obligation<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">In the <em>Aseres Hadibros<\/em> (Ten Commandments), we are commanded to \u201cRemember the <em>Shabbos<\/em> day to sanctify it.\u201d\u00a0 One fulfills this <em>Torah<\/em> obligation by simply reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Shabbos.<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref2\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><sup>2<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0<em>Chazal<\/em> (the Rabbis) instituted the recitation of <em>Kiddush <\/em>over a cup of wine.<a id=\"_ftnref3\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\"><sup>3<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 This <em>Kiddush<\/em> consists of <em>Yom Hashishi-Vayechulu, Savri-Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>, and the <em>brocha <\/em>of <em>Kiddush <\/em>as found in the <em>Siddur<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref4\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\"><sup>4<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 Both men and women are equally obligated in this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref5\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\"><sup>5<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>B.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><em>The Wine and Kiddush Cup <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Wine <\/strong><br \/>\n<em>Kiddush<\/em> may be recited on any kosher wine<a id=\"_ftnref6\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\"><sup>6<\/sup><\/a> upon which the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Borei Pri Hagafen<\/em> is recited.\u00a0 If one cannot drink wine, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on grape juice.<a id=\"_ftnref7\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\"><sup>7<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 One must be careful to purchase only wine and grape juice that have a reliable kosher certification.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Kiddush Cup <\/strong><br \/>\nThe cup must hold at least a <em>revi<\/em>\u2019<em>is<\/em> (3.8 fl. oz.; 112 ml).<a id=\"_ftnref8\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn8\" name=\"_ftnref8\"><sup>8<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 It is <em>mehudar<\/em> (best)to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> using a silver <em>becher<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref9\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn9\" name=\"_ftnref9\"><sup>9<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 The cup should be clean and intact without any cracks or holes.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0One may also use a glass or any other non-disposable cup.\u00a0 <em>B\u2019sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em> (in a difficult situation), if the cups listed above are not available (e.g. one is traveling), one can recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on the wine while it is still in a bottle or in a paper, plastic or styrofoam cup.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0It is best to fill the cup to the top.\u00a0 However, if one does not have enough wine to fill the cup he need not fill it, provided that the cup contains a <em>revi<\/em>\u2019<em>is<\/em> of wine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Amount to Drink<\/strong><br \/>\nUpon completing <em>Kiddush<\/em>, the one who recites it should drink a \u201c<em>m<\/em>\u2019<em>lo lugmav,<\/em>\u201d the amount of wine that fills one of his cheeks.\u00a0 For an average adult male, this is between 1.5 and 2 fl. oz. (44-59 ml).\u00a0 This amount should be drunk within a 30 second time span.<a id=\"_ftnref10\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn10\" name=\"_ftnref10\"><sup>10<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 <em>B\u2019dieved<\/em>, one is <em>yotzai<\/em> (has fulfilled his obligation) if it is drunk within four minutes.<a id=\"_ftnref11\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn11\" name=\"_ftnref11\"><sup>11<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 Ideally, anyone being <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> through listening should also drink some of the wine;<a id=\"_ftnref12\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn12\" name=\"_ftnref12\"><sup>12<\/sup><\/a> however, the listener is still <em>yotzai<\/em> without drinking any wine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">If it is too difficult for the one who recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> to drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>, someone else may drink the entire <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>.\u00a0 If this is not possible, he may share the wine with others so that they<a id=\"_ftnref13\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn13\" name=\"_ftnref13\"><sup>13<\/sup><\/a> collectively drink 2 fl. oz. (59 ml). Either way, the <em>mekadesh<\/em> should at least drink a little of the wine.\u00a0 If he cannot drink any of the wine or grape juice (e.g. he is ill), others who heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> may drink the entire 2 fl. oz.<a id=\"_ftnref14\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn14\" name=\"_ftnref14\"><sup>14<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>C.<strong><em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah \u2013 Eating Immediately After Kiddush In The Same Location<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">One is <em>yotzai<\/em> <em>Kiddush<\/em> only if a \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d (meal) is eaten immediately after <em>Kiddush <\/em>in the same location.\u00a0 This is known as <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Location <\/strong><br \/>\n<em>B\u2019Makom seudah <\/em>means eating in the same room in which <em>Kiddush<\/em> was heard.\u00a0 It is acceptable if one heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> while on one side of the dining room or social hall, and then moved to the other side of the room to eat.\u00a0 However, one may not leave the building to eat the meal.\u00a0 For example, one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> if he heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> in <em>shul<\/em> and then went home to eat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">If one hears <em>Kiddush<\/em> in one room, and intends<a id=\"_ftnref15\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn15\" name=\"_ftnref15\"><sup>15<\/sup><\/a> (has <em>da\u2019as<\/em>) to eat in a different room in the same building, he may eat in the other room.<a id=\"_ftnref16\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn16\" name=\"_ftnref16\"><sup>16<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 This may be done <em>l\u2019chatchilah<\/em> only if he can see the other room while saying <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 If he cannot see the other room, he is only <em>yotzai<\/em> \u00a0<em>b\u2019dieved<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Seudah <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a. Ideally, the <em>seudah<\/em> consists of bread.\u00a0 Typically, following <em>Kiddush<\/em> one washes and recites <em>Hamotzi<\/em> on <em>lechem mishne<\/em> (two loaves).\u00a0 This constitutes <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>, as the <em>seudah<\/em> follows <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<br \/>\nb. \u00a0If one does not eat bread (e.g. at a <em>simcha<\/em> in <em>shul<\/em> after <em>davening<\/em>), one may eat a food containing <em>chamaishis minei dagan<\/em> (five special grains including wheat, oats, etc.) upon which the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Mezonos<\/em> is recited.<a id=\"_ftnref17\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn17\" name=\"_ftnref17\"><sup>17<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 Ideally, the food should be <em>pas haba\u2019a b\u2019kisnin<\/em> (e.g. cake, cookies or crackers).\u00a0 However, the \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d may consist of other <em>Mezonos<\/em> products, such as <em>Yerushalmi<\/em> <em>kugel<\/em> or pasta salad.<a id=\"_ftnref18\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn18\" name=\"_ftnref18\"><sup>18<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 In these cases, a regular <em>seudahs Shabbos<\/em> with <em>lechem mishne<\/em> must be eaten later.<br \/>\nc. <em>B\u2019sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em>, if one is ill and cannot eat grain products for <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>, one can drink a <em>revi&#8217;is<\/em> of wine or grape juice<a id=\"_ftnref19\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn19\" name=\"_ftnref19\"><sup>19<\/sup><\/a> to fulfill this condition.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Amount of Food<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a. \u00a0In the above cases (as addressed previously in 2a and 2b), one must eat a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em>.\u00a0 A <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> is 1.27 fl. oz. (38 ml).<a id=\"_ftnref20\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn20\" name=\"_ftnref20\"><sup>20<\/sup><\/a> \u00a0It is important to note that a <em>brocha acharona<\/em> after eating cake (and\/or wine) should be recited while sitting.<br \/>\nb. \u00a0If one does not eat a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em>, one has not fulfilled his obligation of <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 For example, if one heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning<a id=\"_ftnref21\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn21\" name=\"_ftnref21\"><sup>21<\/sup><\/a> in <em>shul<\/em> and did not eat (or did not eat the prescribed amount), one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> and he must recite it again and then eat a <em>seudah<\/em>.<br \/>\nc. \u00a0Although the \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d one eats following <em>Kiddush<\/em> (for <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>) can be a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> of cake, it should be noted that to be <em>yotzai <\/em>the three <em>seudos <\/em>of <em>Shabbos<\/em> (<em>Shabbos<\/em> meals), one is required to eat a <em>Hamotzi <\/em>product (e.g. <em>challah<\/em>, bread or <em>matzah<\/em>); a <em>Mezonos<\/em> product does not suffice.\u00a0 Ideally, at each <em>seudah<\/em>, one should eat more than two <em>k\u2019zaysim<\/em> of bread (i.e. \u201c<em>yosair m\u2019kebaya<\/em>\u201d \u2013 at least 2.7 fl. oz., 80 ml); <em>b\u2019dieved,<\/em> a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> of bread will suffice.<a id=\"_ftnref22\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn22\" name=\"_ftnref22\"><sup>22<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>D.\u00a0 <strong><em>Shomaya K\u2019Ona \u00a0&#8211; Hearing Kiddush Recited By Someone Else <\/em><\/strong><br \/>\nEveryone has an obligation to recite and hear <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 One may fulfill his obligation to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> by hearing someone else (the \u201c<em>mekadesh<\/em>\u201d) recite it.\u00a0 This is known as \u201c<em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em>\u201d (literally, \u201clistening is like answering\u201d).<a id=\"_ftnref23\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn23\" name=\"_ftnref23\"><sup>23<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 <em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em> works only if all of the following conditions are met:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>One must hear the entire <em>Kiddush <\/em>&#8211;<\/strong> One should not speak while listening and should not say \u201c<em>Baruch Hu U\u2019Varuch Sh\u2019mo.<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 If one spoke, <em>b\u2019dieved<\/em>, the following <em>halachos<\/em> apply:\u00a0 If while speaking one failed to hear a word that is integral to <em>Kiddush<\/em> (e.g. \u201c<em>Boruch<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>Hashem Elokeinu<\/em>\u201d after \u201c<em>Boruch Atoh<\/em>\u201d), one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 If one did not hear a word that is not integral (e.g. \u201c<em>Atoh<\/em>\u201d<a id=\"_ftnref24\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn24\" name=\"_ftnref24\"><sup>24<\/sup><\/a> or \u201c<em>Kee hu yom<\/em>\u201d), one need not repeat <em>Kiddush<\/em>. \u00a0The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply if the one reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> skips, slurs or mumbles the words and the listener is unable to hear what words were said.\u00a0 It is proper to answer \u201c<em>Amen<\/em>\u201d when being <em>yotzai<\/em>, however, if one did not do so he is still <em>yotzai<\/em>.\u00a0 One should also not speak between <em>Kiddush<\/em> and drinking.\u00a0 If the <em>mekadesh<\/em> (or one who is listening) spoke, he is <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> but must recite another <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em> before drinking.<a id=\"_ftnref25\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn25\" name=\"_ftnref25\"><sup>25<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>\u201c<em>Da<\/em>\u2019<em>as Shomaya U<\/em>\u2019<em>mashmia<\/em>\u201d-<\/strong> It is necessary for the one reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> to have in mind that he wishes to be <em>motzee<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref26\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn26\" name=\"_ftnref26\"><sup>26<\/sup><\/a> those listening.\u00a0 One may have in mind specific individuals (e.g. \u201cmy family\u201d),<a id=\"_ftnref27\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn27\" name=\"_ftnref27\"><sup>27<\/sup><\/a> or everyone listening (e.g. when a <em>Rav<\/em> recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> for everyone present).\u00a0 Furthermore, the one listening to <em>Kiddush<\/em> must have in mind to be <em>yotzai<\/em> <em>Kiddush<\/em> (fulfill the obligation by listening).<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">An example where one is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span> <em>yotzai<\/em> is the following scenario:\u00a0 Someone was at a \u201c<em>shul<\/em> <em>Kiddush\u201d<\/em> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning but was not planning to eat. \u00a0When the <em>Rav<\/em> recited <em>Kiddush<\/em>, the listener did not plan to be <em>yotzai<\/em> with the <em>Rav<\/em> (i.e. he was thinking he will recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> at home).\u00a0 If he later changes his mind and decides to eat, he must recite (or hear) <em>Kiddush<\/em> again.\u00a0 Although he \u201cheard\u201d <em>Kiddush<\/em> from the <em>Rav<\/em>, he did not have in mind to be <em>yotzai<\/em> at that time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>High Enough Level of Obligation &#8211;<\/strong> The person reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> must have either the same or higher level of obligation (<em>chiyuv<\/em>) as the listener.<a id=\"_ftnref28\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn28\" name=\"_ftnref28\"><sup>28<\/sup><\/a> This means that a child under <em>Bar Mitzvah<a id=\"_ftnref29\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn29\" name=\"_ftnref29\"><sup>29<\/sup> <\/a><\/em> may not recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for an adult, since the child is obligated only because of <em>chinuch<\/em> (teaching the child to learn how to perform <em>mitzvos<\/em>) and the adult has a direct obligation in the performance of this <em>mitzvah<\/em>. \u00a0If a husband is ill, his wife may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for him on <em>Shabbos<\/em> because both men and women are equally obligated to perform this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.\u00a0 Similarly, a woman may be <em>motzee<\/em> a man in any <em>mitzvah<\/em> that she is equally obligated to perform (e.g. <em>Chanukah<\/em> candles, the <em>brocha<\/em> on food that she is also eating).However, she may not be <em>motzee<\/em> him in <em>mitzvos<\/em> from which she is exempt (e.g. <em>Shofar<\/em>, <em>brocha<\/em> on <em>Sukkah<\/em>), or <em>mitzvos<\/em> from which she is possibly exempt (e.g. <em>Havdalah<\/em>, <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>).<a id=\"_ftnref30\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn30\" name=\"_ftnref30\"><sup>30<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>E.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><em>Differences Between Kiddush on Friday Night and Shabbos Day <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>If one does not have (or is unable to drink) wine or grape juice<\/strong>, the following <em>halachos<\/em> apply:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Friday Night<\/strong><a id=\"_ftnref31\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn31\" name=\"_ftnref31\"><sup>31<\/sup><\/a> \u2013 One may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>challos<\/em>.\u00a0 The procedure is as follows:\u00a0 Wash and recite \u201c<em>Al Netilas Yadayim<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0 Recite the entire <em>Kiddush <\/em>on the <em>lechem mishne<\/em>, replacing the <em>brocha<\/em> of \u201c<em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>\u201d with \u201c<em>Hamotzi Lechem Min Ha\u2019aretz<\/em>.\u201d<a id=\"_ftnref32\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn32\" name=\"_ftnref32\"><sup>32<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 After <em>Kiddush<\/em>, cut and eat the <em>challah<\/em>.\u00a0 If one does not have full <em>challos<\/em>, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on regular bread (even slices).<br \/>\nb.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong><em>Shabbos<\/em> Day<\/strong><a id=\"_ftnref33\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn33\" name=\"_ftnref33\"><sup>33<\/sup><\/a> \u2013 <em>Kiddush<\/em> may not be recited on <em>challos<\/em> or bread.\u00a0 One may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on a <em>revi\u2019is<\/em> of <em>chamar medina<\/em>, ideally an alcoholic beverage including schnapps<a id=\"_ftnref34\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn34\" name=\"_ftnref34\"><sup>34<\/sup><\/a> or beer.\u00a0 If these are not available, one may use coffee or iced tea<a id=\"_ftnref35\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn35\" name=\"_ftnref35\"><sup>35<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 and must drink at least a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>.\u00a0 The <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Shehakol<\/em> is recited when using <em>chamar medina<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.\u00a0\u00a0<strong> Time <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Friday<\/strong> <strong>Night<\/strong> <strong>&#8211;<\/strong> \u00a0Ideally, <em>Kiddush<\/em> should be recited as soon as one comes home from <em>shul<\/em> on Friday night.<a id=\"_ftnref36\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn36\" name=\"_ftnref36\"><sup>36<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 The earliest time to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on Friday afternoon is <em>Plag Hamincha,<a id=\"_ftnref37\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn37\" name=\"_ftnref37\"><sup>37<\/sup><\/a><\/em> which is one and a quarter <em>halachic<\/em> hours<a id=\"_ftnref38\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn38\" name=\"_ftnref38\"><sup>38<\/sup><\/a> before sunset.<a id=\"_ftnref39\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn39\" name=\"_ftnref39\"><sup>39<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 The latest time to say the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">entire<\/span> <em>Kiddush<\/em> is dawn on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning.\u00a0 If one was unable to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> at night, one must say <em>Kiddush<\/em> during the day.\u00a0 He should <em>daven<\/em> <em>Shachris<\/em> (after sunrise or, if necessary, after dawn) and then recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> without <em>Vayechulu<\/em> (i.e. begin <em>Kiddush<\/em> with <em>Savri<\/em> \u2026 <em>Borai P\u2019ri Hagefen<\/em>).\u00a0 If necessary, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> (without \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d) until sunset<a id=\"_ftnref40\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn40\" name=\"_ftnref40\"><sup>40<\/sup><\/a> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> afternoon, and immediately eat the <em>seudah<\/em>.\u00a0 If one recited the night <em>Kiddush<\/em> during the day, he does not have to recite <em>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/em>.<br \/>\n<em>b.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/strong><\/em> &#8211; This is <em>Kiddush <\/em>recitedduring the day (when regular <em>Kiddush<\/em> was recited at night). It may be said from any time after <em>Shachris<\/em> until sunset.\u00a0 This <em>Kiddush<\/em> consists of <em>pesukim<\/em> (e.g. <em>V\u2019shamru, Al Kain Bayrach), Savri,<\/em> and <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>. One should follow his family\u2019s custom regarding which <em>pesukim<\/em> to say.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Position &#8211;<\/strong> There are various customs regarding how <em>Kiddush<\/em> is recited.\u00a0 One should follow his family\u2019s custom.\u00a0 The reasons for standing or sitting on Friday night are as follows:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Standing \u2013 \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d is <em>aidus<\/em> (testimony) that <em>Hashem<\/em> created the world and rested on <em>Shabbos<\/em>.\u00a0 Just as witnesses stand before <em>Bais Din<\/em> when testifying, similarly some stand for this \u201c<em>aidus<\/em>\u201d and remain standing while reciting the entire <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<br \/>\nb.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sitting \u2013 When being <em>motzee<\/em> others, everyone is joined together for that moment.\u00a0 This is known as a \u201c<em>kviyus<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0 When everyone sits together, there is a stronger sense of unity of purpose and <em>kviyus<\/em>.<br \/>\nc.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Some stand for <em>Vayechulu<\/em> because of <em>aidus<\/em> and then sit down for the rest of <em>Kiddush<\/em> for <em>kviyus<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">During the day, there are two customs.\u00a0 Some people have a custom to stand when reciting<br \/>\n<em>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/em>, while others have a custom to sit.\u00a0 One should follow his family custom.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">4.<strong>\u00a0\u00a0 Eating Before Kiddush &#8211;<\/strong> On Friday night, once <em>Shabbos<\/em> begins,<a id=\"_ftnref41\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn41\" name=\"_ftnref41\"><sup>41<\/sup><\/a> one may not eat or drink before <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 On <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning, men may drink water, tea or coffee before <em>Shachris <\/em>(after <em>brochos<\/em>), but may not eat and may not drink \u201c<em>chashuva<\/em> beverages\u201d (e.g. alcoholic beverages) unless they are required for health purposes.\u00a0 After <em>Shachris<\/em>, one may not eat or drink until after <em>Kiddush<\/em>.A woman who normally <em>davens<\/em> may eat or drink before <em>davening<\/em> after reciting morning <em>brochos<\/em>.\u00a0 According to some <em>Poskim<\/em>,<a id=\"_ftnref42\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn42\" name=\"_ftnref42\"><sup>42<\/sup><\/a> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> if she needs to eat before davening, she is not required to recite Kiddush at that time.\u00a0 Once she has completed <em>davening<\/em> <em>Shachris, <\/em>she must hear <em>Kiddush<\/em> before eating or drinking.<\/p>\n<p>F.\u00a0\u00a0<strong>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Generally, the <em>halachos<\/em> of <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em> are similar to those of <em>Shabbos<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref43\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn43\" name=\"_ftnref43\"><sup>43<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 One follows the special <em>nusach<\/em> for <em>Yom Tov<\/em> as found in the <em>Siddur<\/em> or <em>Machzor<\/em>.\u00a0 \u201c<em>Shehecheyanu<\/em>\u201d is said following <em>Kiddush<\/em>, with the exception of the last two nights of <em>Pesach<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref44\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn44\" name=\"_ftnref44\"><sup>44<\/sup><\/a><br \/>\nWhen <em>Yom Tov<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em>, the <em>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/em> with \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d and the special <em>Shabbos<\/em> additions are recited. When <em>Yom Tov<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, <em>Kiddush<\/em> and <em>Havdalah<\/em> are recited on the same cup of wine.\u00a0 The acronym used to remember the order is <em>YaKNeHaZ<\/em>:\u00a0 <strong><em>Yayin<\/em><\/strong> (wine) &#8211; the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>; <strong><em>Kiddush<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; the regular <em>nusach<\/em> of <em>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/em>; <strong><em>Ner<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; <em>Borei Me\u2019orai Ha\u2019aish;<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref45\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn45\" name=\"_ftnref45\"><sup>45<\/sup><\/a> <strong><em>Havdalah<\/em><\/strong>&#8211; A special <em>brocha<\/em> of \u00a0<em>Havdalah<\/em> for <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em> going into <em>Yom Tov<\/em>; <strong><em>Z\u2019man<\/em><\/strong>&#8211; the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref46\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn46\" name=\"_ftnref46\"><sup>46<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 There are no <em>b\u2019samim<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Whenever the word <em>Kiddush<\/em> or <em>kodesh<\/em> is used, it indicates holiness and separation.\u00a0 For example, the place of the <em>Kodesh HaKedoshim<\/em>\u00a0in the Beis Hamikdash remains the holiest of sites that is set apart from all other places on earth.\u00a0 When we, as Yidden, recite Kiddush every Shabbos we reflect upon the holiness of the day, as well as how the Jewish people have remained sanctified and separated from the other nations of the world.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">In our modern world filled with ATMs, cell phones, instant messaging and MP3s, it is <em>Klal Yisroel<\/em> who emulates the <em>Ribono Shel Olam<\/em> when we stop all of our work for <em>Shabbos<\/em>.\u00a0 The cup of <em>Kiddush<\/em> wine\u00a0symbolizes our responsibility to sanctify everything around us. That is what <em>Shabbos<\/em> is all about.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div id=\"ftn1\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">1<\/a> It should be noted that the melody of Kiddush for all of the <em>S<\/em>halosh Regalim is also the tune used elsewhere during each <em>z\u2019man<\/em> of Yom Tov.\u00a0 On Shavuos (Z<em>man Matan Torasainu<\/em>), it is also used for <em>Akdamus<\/em>.\u00a0 On Simchas Torah (Z<em>man Simchasainu<\/em>), it is also used when calling up the <em>Chosson Torah<\/em> and <em>Chosson Breishis<\/em> (\u201c<em>Mairshus<\/em>\u201d).\u00a0 On Pesach (Z<em>man Chairusainu<\/em>), some also use this tune during the <em>Hagaddah<\/em> for \u201c<em>Lefichach<\/em>\u201d and the <em>bracha<\/em> of \u201c<em>Asher Ga\u2019alanu.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn2\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn2\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">2<\/a> The <em>Rambam<\/em> (<em>Hilchos Shabbos<\/em> 29:1) writes that the obligation to remember Shabbos is both at the beginning and the end of Shabbos.\u00a0 Technically, <em>Havdalah<\/em> is also a \u201cKiddush\u201d for the end of Shabbos.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn3\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn3\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">3<\/a> See <em>Tosfos Nazir<\/em> 4a, \u201c<em>mai hi.<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 <em>Tosfos Pesachim<\/em> 106a \u201c<em>zachreihu<\/em>\u201d states two opinions: 1) the cup of wine is <em>d&#8217;rabanan<\/em>;\u00a0 2) the cup of wine is <em>d\u2019Oraysa<\/em>, but the drinking of it is <em>d&#8217;rabanan<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn4\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn4\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">4<\/a> There are slight differences between <em>nuschos<\/em> (i.e., whether certain words are said). One should follow his family custom.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn5\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn5\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">5<\/a> There is a dispute as to whether women are obligated to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>.\u00a0 The custom is to follow those who rule that they are obligated.\u00a0 For a full discussion, see <em>Shemiras Shabbos K\u2019hilchasa<\/em> (<em>S.S.K.<\/em>) Ch. 47 footnote 26.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn6\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn6\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">6<\/a> The wine cup should also not be <em>pogum<\/em> (i.e. this wine should not have been drunk from).\u00a0 For a full discussion, see <em>S.S.K. <\/em>47:15.\u00a0 There is a <em>hiddur <\/em>(best way to perform the <em>mitzvah<\/em>)\u00a0 to use <em>non<\/em>&#8211;<em>mevushal<\/em> (uncooked) wine; however, <em>mevushal<\/em> wine may also be used.\u00a0 When using <em>non<\/em>&#8211;<em>mevushal<\/em> wine, one must be careful that gentiles and non-observant Jews do not come into contact with the wine.\u00a0 One should preferably not use wine which was left uncovered for several hours (<em>megulah<\/em>) &#8211; see <em>Kitzur Shulchan Aruch<\/em> 77:5.\u00a0 Some are <em>mehadar<\/em> to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on red wine &#8211; see <em>Mishna Brura<\/em> (<em>M.B.<\/em>) 272:10.\u00a0 See also <em>Rama<\/em> 175:2 and <em>M.B.<\/em> 175:13 regarding white wine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn7\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn7\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">7<\/a> If wine and grape juice are not available, there may be other options as will be discussed in Section E.1.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn8\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn8\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref8\" name=\"_ftn8\">8<\/a> For a further discussion regarding halachic measurements, see <em>Shulchan Aruch O.C.<\/em> 472:9 and <em>M.B<\/em>. 271:68.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn9\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn9\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref9\" name=\"_ftn9\">9<\/a> This is in fulfillment of \u201c<em>hisna\u2019eh b\u2019mitzvos,<\/em>\u201d that we derive from the <em>pasuk<\/em> of \u201cz<em>eh Kayli v\u2019anveihu.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn10\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn10\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref10\" name=\"_ftn10\">10<\/a> This is the <em>shiur k\u2019dei shtiyas revi\u2019is (psak <\/em>of <em>HaRav<\/em> Moshe Heinemann<em>, shlita)<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn11\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn11\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref11\" name=\"_ftn11\">11<\/a> The lenient opinion for <em>k&#8217;dei achilas pras<\/em>.\u00a0 See <em>S.S.K.<\/em> 48:10.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn12\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn12\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref12\" name=\"_ftn12\">12<\/a> The ideal way to distribute Kiddush is as follows:\u00a0 After the completion of Kiddush, the <em>mekadesh<\/em> pours the wine from the <em>becher<\/em> into another cup.\u00a0 He then drinks a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> from the <em>becher,<\/em> and the wine in the other cup is distributed.\u00a0 If a husband and wife are eating alone, and the wife is a <em>niddah<\/em>, the husband should either 1) put his cup down after drinking a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> and his wife drinks from that cup, or 2) pour wine into another cup and drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> from that cup.\u00a0 His wife should then drink from the <em>becher<\/em> that he has put down.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn13\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn13\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref13\" name=\"_ftn13\">13<\/a> Children age 6 and above can be counted in this drinking.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn14\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn14\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref14\" name=\"_ftn14\">14<\/a> Within the time of <em>k\u2019dai achilas pras<\/em>.\u00a0 For a full discussion, see <em>Shulchan Aruch OC<\/em> 271:13 &amp; 14 and the <em>Mishna Brura<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn15\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn15\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref15\" name=\"_ftn15\">15<\/a> Without <em>da\u2019as<\/em>, one may not switch rooms.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn16\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn16\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref16\" name=\"_ftn16\">16<\/a> See <em>Biur Halacha<\/em> 273:1 \u201c<em>v\u2019chain<\/em>\u201d and <em>S.S.K<\/em>. 54:9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn17\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn17\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref17\" name=\"_ftn17\">17<\/a> This is very common on <em>Shabbos<\/em> day in <em>shul<\/em>.\u00a0 <em>L\u2019halachah<\/em>, such <em>Mezonos<\/em> products constitute \u201c<em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>\u201d on Friday night, if necessary.\u00a0 See <em>S.S.K<\/em>. 54:22.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn18\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn18\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref18\" name=\"_ftn18\">18<\/a> <em>M.B.<\/em> 273:25.\u00a0 <em>Matzoh<\/em> meal cake is also \u201c<em>B<\/em>\u2019M<em>akom seudah.<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 However, potato starch cakes and rice products, such as \u201cRice Krispies Treats,\u201d can not be used for <em>Kiddush<\/em> <em>B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn19\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn19\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref19\" name=\"_ftn19\">19<\/a> When hearing <em>Kiddush<\/em>, drink a <em>revi&#8217;is<\/em>.\u00a0When reciting\u00a0<em>Kiddush<\/em>, drink 1.51 <em>revi\u2019is<\/em>.(i.e. slightly more than a half-<em>reviis <\/em>to be <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> and then another reviis for <em>b\u2019makom \u201cseuda<\/em>\u201d) of wine or grape juice (<em>S.S.K.<\/em>\u00a054:23).\u00a0 If one becomes ill from grain and wine products, he should eat fruits in order to have <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em> (<em>Shiltay Gibborim<\/em> as quoted in M.B. 273:26<em>).<\/em> It is preferable that the fruit be cooked (see <em>Kitzur Shulchan Aruch<\/em> 77:16).\u00a0 One should\u00a0 rely on this only if it is a major <em>sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn20\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn20\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref20\" name=\"_ftn20\">20<\/a> About the size of a golf ball or roll of quarters.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn21\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn21\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref21\" name=\"_ftn21\">21<\/a> Friday night in <em>shul<\/em>, one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> recited during <em>Maariv<\/em>.\u00a0 This <em>Kiddush<\/em> is an old <em>minhag<\/em> (custom) that was established when guests ate in the <em>shul<\/em>.\u00a0 The custom is to give this wine to children under the age of <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em>.\u00a0 At least one child should be a \u201c<em>bar chinuch,<\/em>\u201d over 6 or 7 years old.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn22\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn22\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref22\" name=\"_ftn22\">22<\/a> Men and women must have <em>lechem mishne<\/em> at the three <em>Shabbos<\/em> meals.\u00a0 See <em>Shulchan Aruch O.C.<\/em> 274:1. Additional guidelines regarding <em>seudah Shlishis<\/em> are addressed in <em>Rama O.C.<\/em> 291:4.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn23\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn23\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref23\" name=\"_ftn23\">23<\/a> <em>Shomaya K\u2019ona<\/em> is not unique to <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 When one hears <em>Shofar<\/em> or <em>Megillah<\/em>, one is <em>yotzai<\/em> with the principle of <em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em>.\u00a0 For a thorough discussion of this topic, see <em>Sefer Shaarei Shmiya <\/em>by <em>HaRav<\/em> Mordechai Shuchatowitz, <em>shlita<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn24\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn24\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref24\" name=\"_ftn24\">24<\/a> <em>M.B.<\/em> 214:3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn25\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn25\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref25\" name=\"_ftn25\">25<\/a> If he said something that pertains to <em>Kiddush<\/em> (e.g. when necessary, he may say \u201cWe need little cups to give everyone <em>Kiddush<\/em>\u201d), he need not repeat <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn26\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn26\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref26\" name=\"_ftn26\">26<\/a> This means that he recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> with the intent that others should be \u201c<em>yotzai<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn27\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn27\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref27\" name=\"_ftn27\">27<\/a> In this case, if someone recited <em>Kiddush<\/em> only for \u201chis family\u201d, and someone else was listening, the other listener would not be <em>yotzai<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn28\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn28\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref28\" name=\"_ftn28\">28<\/a> One can be <em>motzee<\/em> others, even if he has been <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> already.\u00a0 For example, one who was <em>yotzai<\/em> at a \u201c<em>shul Kiddush<\/em>\u201d may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for his family at home, even though he was already <em>yotzai<\/em>.\u00a0 For an extensive discussion, see <em>Biur Halachah<\/em> 271:1 <em>meyad<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn29\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn29\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref29\" name=\"_ftn29\">29<\/a> It should be noted that a <em>bochur<\/em> who recently became <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em> should not be <em>motzee<\/em> adults in <em>mitzvos<\/em> that have a <em>Torah<\/em> obligation (e.g. <em>Kiddush<\/em> on Friday night).\u00a0 It is for this reason that <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em> boys do not <em>lain<\/em> <em>Parshas<\/em> <em>Zachor<\/em> or blow <em>shofar<\/em> on <em>Rosh Hashana<\/em> for others.\u00a0 Under normal circumstances, they may be <em>motzee<\/em> adults only in <em>mitzvos<\/em> d\u2019<em>rabanan<\/em> (regular <em>laining<\/em>, <em>chazaras hashatz<\/em>, etc.)\u00a0 The reason for this is beyond the scope of this discussion.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn30\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn30\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref30\" name=\"_ftn30\">30<\/a> Although women are accustomed to hear <em>Havdalah<\/em> after <em>Shabbos<\/em> and <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, as well as <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, there is a question as to the status of their obligation.\u00a0 The issue relates to the parameters of <em>mitzvos asei shehaz\u2019man grama<\/em> \u2013 positive <em>mitzvos<\/em> bound by time, a topic beyond the scope of this article. Hence, they cannot be <em>motzee<\/em> men who are definitively obligated.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn31\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn31\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref31\" name=\"_ftn31\">31<\/a> The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply to <em>Yom Tov<\/em> night.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn32\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn32\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref32\" name=\"_ftn32\">32<\/a> The method of holding the <em>challos <\/em>in this case is discussed in <em>M.B.<\/em> 271:41.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn33\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn33\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref33\" name=\"_ftn33\">33<\/a> The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply to <em>Yom Tov<\/em> during the day.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn34\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn34\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref34\" name=\"_ftn34\">34<\/a> When reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> on schnapps, one should use a cup that holds a <em>revi\u2019is<\/em> and drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> (as discussed above, Section B-3).\u00a0 One who wishes to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> using a shot glass (i.e. 1 fl. oz. cup) should consult his <em>Rav<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn35\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn35\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref35\" name=\"_ftn35\">35<\/a> See <em>Igros Moshe O.C.<\/em> 2:75 and <em>Aruch Hashulchan O.C.<\/em> 296:18.\u00a0 The advantage of iced tea over hot tea is that one can easily drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> quickly enough <em>k\u2019dai shtiyas revi\u2019is<\/em> (see <em>Mikrai Kodesh-Pesach<\/em> 47:3).\u00a0 When necessary, <em>chamar medina<\/em> may also be used for <em>Havdalah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn36\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn36\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref36\" name=\"_ftn36\">36<\/a> Regarding when it is necessary to repeat <em>Shema<\/em> and count <em>Sefiras Ha\u2019omer<\/em> before <em>Kiddush<\/em>, see <em>S.S.K.<\/em> 47:22 and 52:5.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn37\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn37\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref37\" name=\"_ftn37\">37<\/a> When <em>Asara B\u2019Teves<\/em> (or any private fast) occurs on Friday, one must wait until <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em>.\u00a0 This case, and <em>Taanis Bechorim<\/em> for those who fast all day on <em>Erev Pesach<\/em>,are the only regular fasts that come to an end with the recitation of <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn38\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn38\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref38\" name=\"_ftn38\">38<\/a> This time is based on the length of the day when 43\/48 of the time between sunrise and sunset has elapsed.\u00a0 In the United States in the winter, this is often less than one clock hour before sunset; in the summer it is 1 \u00bd &#8211; 2 hours before sunset.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn39\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn39\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref39\" name=\"_ftn39\">39<\/a> The night <em>Kiddush<\/em> of <em>Yom Tov<\/em> may also be said after <em>plag hamincha<\/em>,<em> l\u2019chatchila<\/em>, only on the following <em>Yomin Tovim<\/em>:\u00a0\u00a0 1) the seventh night of <em>Pesach<\/em>, 2) when the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em> and 3) when the second night of <em>Shavuos<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em>.\u00a0 One should not recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> before <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> (before it is dark and three stars are visible) on any other night of <em>Yom Tov<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn40\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn40\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref40\" name=\"_ftn40\">40<\/a> This should only be done <em>b\u2019shaas hadchak<\/em>.\u00a0 If one was unable to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> until after sunset on <em>Shabbos<\/em> afternoon, one should still say it until <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> without <em>Shaim U<\/em>\u2019<em>Malchus<\/em> (i.e. say <em>Boruch Asher Kidshanu v<\/em>\u2019<em>ratza banu<\/em> \u2026 <em>Boruch mekadesh HaShabbos<\/em>).\u00a0 See <em>M.B.<\/em> 271:39.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn41\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn41\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref41\" name=\"_ftn41\">41<\/a> <em>Shabbos<\/em> begins either because the sun has set, or because an individual has been <em>mikabel Shabbos<\/em> by lighting candles or during <em>davening<\/em> (e.g. by saying <em>Bo\u2019ee B\u2019Shalom<\/em> of <em>L\u2019cha Dodi<\/em>).\u00a0 A woman who is thirsty may drink water after lighting candles if it is still before sunset (<em>S.S.K.<\/em> 43:46).\u00a0 Before <em>Shabbos<\/em>, one may not begin a <em>Hamotzee<\/em> meal from the 10th hour of the day (3 <em>halachic<\/em> hours before sunset) so as not to suppress one\u2019s appetite.\u00a0 One may, however, eat cake or other <em>Mezonos<\/em>. On <em>Erev<\/em> <em>Pesach<\/em>, one may not even eat <em>Mezonos<\/em> after the 10th hour.\u00a0 Similarly, men may not eat Mezonos after the 10th hour on <em>Erev Sukkos<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn42\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn42\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref42\" name=\"_ftn42\">42<\/a> For the various details regarding this <em>halachah<\/em>, see <em>Machze Eliyahu<\/em> 33:3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn43\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn43\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref43\" name=\"_ftn43\">43<\/a> However, on the <em>Seder<\/em> night the <em>seudah<\/em> does not immediately follow <em>Kiddush<\/em> (due to <em>Maggid<\/em>, etc.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn44\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn44\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref44\" name=\"_ftn44\">44 <\/a> On the second night of <em>Rosh Hashana<\/em>, one should eat a new fruit immediately after <em>Kiddush<\/em> or wear a new garment.\u00a0 On the first night of <em>Sukkos<\/em>, <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em> is recited after the <em>brocha<\/em> of\u00a0 \u201c<em>Layshev Basukkah,<\/em>\u201d and on the second night before \u201c<em>Layshev Basukkah.<\/em>\u201d\u00a0 When the second night of <em>Sukkos<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, the longest possible <em>Kiddush<\/em> is recited.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn45\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn45\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref45\" name=\"_ftn45\">45 <\/a> One should recite <em>Borei Meorei Ha\u2019aish<\/em> using the <em>Yom Tov<\/em> candles, putting them together side by side while upright. They should not be tilted to touch each other. Alternatively, one may recite the <em>brochah<\/em> using a non-frosted incandescent light bulb which was turned on before <em>Shabbos<\/em> (or was turned on by a timer which was set before <em>Shabbos<\/em>).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn46\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn46\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref46\" name=\"_ftn46\">46 <\/a> When the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, the acronym of \u201c<em>YaKNeHa\u201d<\/em> would be applied as <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em> (<em>z\u2019man<\/em>) is not said.\u00a0 It should be noted that this case (i.e. when the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>) is the only time that <em>Kiddush<\/em> ends with \u201c<em>Kodesh<\/em>\u201d (<em>Hamavdil Bain Kodesh L&#8217;Kodesh<\/em>).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Published Winter 2009<\/p>\n<p>One of the most beautiful scenes in Yiddishkeit is the family gathered around the table for Kiddush,\u00a0 a special moment 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