{"id":649,"date":"2013-08-15T20:30:35","date_gmt":"2013-08-15T20:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.star-k.org\/articles\/?p=649"},"modified":"2024-01-02T19:44:33","modified_gmt":"2024-01-02T19:44:33","slug":"the-halachic-guide-to-kiddush","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.star-k.org\/articles\/kashrus-kurrents\/649\/the-halachic-guide-to-kiddush\/","title":{"rendered":"The Halachic Guide to Kiddush"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Published Winter 2009<\/em><\/p>\n<p>One of the most beautiful scenes in <em>Yiddishkeit<\/em> is the family gathered around the table for <em>Kiddush<\/em>,&nbsp; a special moment for which we wait all week.&nbsp; On <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, the beautiful melody<a id=\"_ftnref1\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><sup>1<\/sup><\/a> ushers in each of the <em>Shalosh Regalim<\/em> with much excitement.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Although we are quite familiar with how to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em>, it is important to review the <em>halachos<\/em> related to this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>A.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong><em>Obligation<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">In the <em>Aseres Hadibros<\/em> (Ten Commandments), we are commanded to \u201cRemember the <em>Shabbos<\/em> day to sanctify it.\u201d&nbsp; One fulfills this <em>Torah<\/em> obligation by simply reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Shabbos.<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref2\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><sup>2<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp;<em>Chazal<\/em> (the Rabbis) instituted the recitation of <em>Kiddush <\/em>over a cup of wine.<a id=\"_ftnref3\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\"><sup>3<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; This <em>Kiddush<\/em> consists of <em>Yom Hashishi-Vayechulu, Savri-Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>, and the <em>brocha <\/em>of <em>Kiddush <\/em>as found in the <em>Siddur<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref4\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\"><sup>4<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; Both men and women are equally obligated in this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref5\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\"><sup>5<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>B.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong><em>The Wine and Kiddush Cup <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Wine <\/strong><br \/>\n<em>Kiddush<\/em> may be recited on any kosher wine<a id=\"_ftnref6\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\"><sup>6<\/sup><\/a> upon which the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Borei Pri Hagafen<\/em> is recited.&nbsp; If one cannot drink wine, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on grape juice.<a id=\"_ftnref7\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\"><sup>7<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; One must be careful to purchase only wine and grape juice that have a reliable kosher certification.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Kiddush Cup <\/strong><br \/>\nThe cup must hold at least a <em>revi<\/em>\u2019<em>is<\/em> (3.8 fl. oz.; 112 ml).<a id=\"_ftnref8\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn8\" name=\"_ftnref8\"><sup>8<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; It is <em>mehudar<\/em> (best)to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> using a silver <em>becher<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref9\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn9\" name=\"_ftnref9\"><sup>9<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; The cup should be clean and intact without any cracks or holes.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;One may also use a glass or any other non-disposable cup.&nbsp; <em>B\u2019sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em> (in a difficult situation), if the cups listed above are not available (e.g. one is traveling), one can recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on the wine while it is still in a bottle or in a paper, plastic or styrofoam cup.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;It is best to fill the cup to the top.&nbsp; However, if one does not have enough wine to fill the cup he need not fill it, provided that the cup contains a <em>revi<\/em>\u2019<em>is<\/em> of wine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Amount to Drink<\/strong><br \/>\nUpon completing <em>Kiddush<\/em>, the one who recites it should drink a \u201c<em>m<\/em>\u2019<em>lo lugmav,<\/em>\u201d the amount of wine that fills one of his cheeks.&nbsp; For an average adult male, this is between 1.5 and 2 fl. oz. (44-59 ml).&nbsp; This amount should be drunk within a 30 second time span.<a id=\"_ftnref10\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn10\" name=\"_ftnref10\"><sup>10<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; <em>B\u2019dieved<\/em>, one is <em>yotzai<\/em> (has fulfilled his obligation) if it is drunk within four minutes.<a id=\"_ftnref11\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn11\" name=\"_ftnref11\"><sup>11<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; Ideally, anyone being <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> through listening should also drink some of the wine;<a id=\"_ftnref12\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn12\" name=\"_ftnref12\"><sup>12<\/sup><\/a> however, the listener is still <em>yotzai<\/em> without drinking any wine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">If it is too difficult for the one who recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> to drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>, someone else may drink the entire <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>.&nbsp; If this is not possible, he may share the wine with others so that they<a id=\"_ftnref13\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn13\" name=\"_ftnref13\"><sup>13<\/sup><\/a> collectively drink 2 fl. oz. (59 ml). Either way, the <em>mekadesh<\/em> should at least drink a little of the wine.&nbsp; If he cannot drink any of the wine or grape juice (e.g. he is ill), others who heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> may drink the entire 2 fl. oz.<a id=\"_ftnref14\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn14\" name=\"_ftnref14\"><sup>14<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>C.<strong><em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah \u2013 Eating Immediately After Kiddush In The Same Location<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">One is <em>yotzai<\/em> <em>Kiddush<\/em> only if a \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d (meal) is eaten immediately after <em>Kiddush <\/em>in the same location.&nbsp; This is known as <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Location <\/strong><br \/>\n<em>B\u2019Makom seudah <\/em>means eating in the same room in which <em>Kiddush<\/em> was heard.&nbsp; It is acceptable if one heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> while on one side of the dining room or social hall, and then moved to the other side of the room to eat.&nbsp; However, one may not leave the building to eat the meal.&nbsp; For example, one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> if he heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> in <em>shul<\/em> and then went home to eat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">If one hears <em>Kiddush<\/em> in one room, and intends<a id=\"_ftnref15\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn15\" name=\"_ftnref15\"><sup>15<\/sup><\/a> (has <em>da\u2019as<\/em>) to eat in a different room in the same building, he may eat in the other room.<a id=\"_ftnref16\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn16\" name=\"_ftnref16\"><sup>16<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; This may be done <em>l\u2019chatchilah<\/em> only if he can see the other room while saying <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; If he cannot see the other room, he is only <em>yotzai<\/em> &nbsp;<em>b\u2019dieved<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Seudah <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a. Ideally, the <em>seudah<\/em> consists of bread.&nbsp; Typically, following <em>Kiddush<\/em> one washes and recites <em>Hamotzi<\/em> on <em>lechem mishne<\/em> (two loaves).&nbsp; This constitutes <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>, as the <em>seudah<\/em> follows <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<br \/>\nb. &nbsp;If one does not eat bread (e.g. at a <em>simcha<\/em> in <em>shul<\/em> after <em>davening<\/em>), one may eat a food containing <em>chamaishis minei dagan<\/em> (five special grains including wheat, oats, etc.) upon which the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Mezonos<\/em> is recited.<a id=\"_ftnref17\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn17\" name=\"_ftnref17\"><sup>17<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; Ideally, the food should be <em>pas haba\u2019a b\u2019kisnin<\/em> (e.g. cake, cookies or crackers).&nbsp; However, the \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d may consist of other <em>Mezonos<\/em> products, such as <em>Yerushalmi<\/em> <em>kugel<\/em> or pasta salad.<a id=\"_ftnref18\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn18\" name=\"_ftnref18\"><sup>18<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; In these cases, a regular <em>seudahs Shabbos<\/em> with <em>lechem mishne<\/em> must be eaten later.<br \/>\nc. <em>B\u2019sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em>, if one is ill and cannot eat grain products for <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>, one can drink a <em>revi&#8217;is<\/em> of wine or grape juice<a id=\"_ftnref19\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn19\" name=\"_ftnref19\"><sup>19<\/sup><\/a> to fulfill this condition.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Amount of Food<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a. &nbsp;In the above cases (as addressed previously in 2a and 2b), one must eat a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em>.&nbsp; A <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> is 1.27 fl. oz. (38 ml).<a id=\"_ftnref20\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn20\" name=\"_ftnref20\"><sup>20<\/sup><\/a> &nbsp;It is important to note that a <em>brocha acharona<\/em> after eating cake (and\/or wine) should be recited while sitting.<br \/>\nb. &nbsp;If one does not eat a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em>, one has not fulfilled his obligation of <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; For example, if one heard <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning<a id=\"_ftnref21\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn21\" name=\"_ftnref21\"><sup>21<\/sup><\/a> in <em>shul<\/em> and did not eat (or did not eat the prescribed amount), one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> and he must recite it again and then eat a <em>seudah<\/em>.<br \/>\nc. &nbsp;Although the \u201c<em>seudah<\/em>\u201d one eats following <em>Kiddush<\/em> (for <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>) can be a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> of cake, it should be noted that to be <em>yotzai <\/em>the three <em>seudos <\/em>of <em>Shabbos<\/em> (<em>Shabbos<\/em> meals), one is required to eat a <em>Hamotzi <\/em>product (e.g. <em>challah<\/em>, bread or <em>matzah<\/em>); a <em>Mezonos<\/em> product does not suffice.&nbsp; Ideally, at each <em>seudah<\/em>, one should eat more than two <em>k\u2019zaysim<\/em> of bread (i.e. \u201c<em>yosair m\u2019kebaya<\/em>\u201d \u2013 at least 2.7 fl. oz., 80 ml); <em>b\u2019dieved,<\/em> a <em>k\u2019zayis<\/em> of bread will suffice.<a id=\"_ftnref22\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn22\" name=\"_ftnref22\"><sup>22<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>D.&nbsp; <strong><em>Shomaya K\u2019Ona &nbsp;&#8211; Hearing Kiddush Recited By Someone Else <\/em><\/strong><br \/>\nEveryone has an obligation to recite and hear <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; One may fulfill his obligation to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> by hearing someone else (the \u201c<em>mekadesh<\/em>\u201d) recite it.&nbsp; This is known as \u201c<em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em>\u201d (literally, \u201clistening is like answering\u201d).<a id=\"_ftnref23\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn23\" name=\"_ftnref23\"><sup>23<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; <em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em> works only if all of the following conditions are met:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>One must hear the entire <em>Kiddush <\/em>&#8211;<\/strong> One should not speak while listening and should not say \u201c<em>Baruch Hu U\u2019Varuch Sh\u2019mo.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp; If one spoke, <em>b\u2019dieved<\/em>, the following <em>halachos<\/em> apply:&nbsp; If while speaking one failed to hear a word that is integral to <em>Kiddush<\/em> (e.g. \u201c<em>Boruch<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>Hashem Elokeinu<\/em>\u201d after \u201c<em>Boruch Atoh<\/em>\u201d), one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; If one did not hear a word that is not integral (e.g. \u201c<em>Atoh<\/em>\u201d<a id=\"_ftnref24\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn24\" name=\"_ftnref24\"><sup>24<\/sup><\/a> or \u201c<em>Kee hu yom<\/em>\u201d), one need not repeat <em>Kiddush<\/em>. &nbsp;The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply if the one reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> skips, slurs or mumbles the words and the listener is unable to hear what words were said.&nbsp; It is proper to answer \u201c<em>Amen<\/em>\u201d when being <em>yotzai<\/em>, however, if one did not do so he is still <em>yotzai<\/em>.&nbsp; One should also not speak between <em>Kiddush<\/em> and drinking.&nbsp; If the <em>mekadesh<\/em> (or one who is listening) spoke, he is <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> but must recite another <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em> before drinking.<a id=\"_ftnref25\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn25\" name=\"_ftnref25\"><sup>25<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>\u201c<em>Da<\/em>\u2019<em>as Shomaya U<\/em>\u2019<em>mashmia<\/em>\u201d-<\/strong> It is necessary for the one reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> to have in mind that he wishes to be <em>motzee<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref26\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn26\" name=\"_ftnref26\"><sup>26<\/sup><\/a> those listening.&nbsp; One may have in mind specific individuals (e.g. \u201cmy family\u201d),<a id=\"_ftnref27\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn27\" name=\"_ftnref27\"><sup>27<\/sup><\/a> or everyone listening (e.g. when a <em>Rav<\/em> recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> for everyone present).&nbsp; Furthermore, the one listening to <em>Kiddush<\/em> must have in mind to be <em>yotzai<\/em> <em>Kiddush<\/em> (fulfill the obligation by listening).<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">An example where one is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span> <em>yotzai<\/em> is the following scenario:&nbsp; Someone was at a \u201c<em>shul<\/em> <em>Kiddush\u201d<\/em> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning but was not planning to eat. &nbsp;When the <em>Rav<\/em> recited <em>Kiddush<\/em>, the listener did not plan to be <em>yotzai<\/em> with the <em>Rav<\/em> (i.e. he was thinking he will recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> at home).&nbsp; If he later changes his mind and decides to eat, he must recite (or hear) <em>Kiddush<\/em> again.&nbsp; Although he \u201cheard\u201d <em>Kiddush<\/em> from the <em>Rav<\/em>, he did not have in mind to be <em>yotzai<\/em> at that time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>High Enough Level of Obligation &#8211;<\/strong> The person reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> must have either the same or higher level of obligation (<em>chiyuv<\/em>) as the listener.<a id=\"_ftnref28\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn28\" name=\"_ftnref28\"><sup>28<\/sup><\/a> This means that a child under <em>Bar Mitzvah<a id=\"_ftnref29\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn29\" name=\"_ftnref29\"><sup>29<\/sup> <\/a><\/em> may not recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for an adult, since the child is obligated only because of <em>chinuch<\/em> (teaching the child to learn how to perform <em>mitzvos<\/em>) and the adult has a direct obligation in the performance of this <em>mitzvah<\/em>. &nbsp;If a husband is ill, his wife may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for him on <em>Shabbos<\/em> because both men and women are equally obligated to perform this <em>mitzvah<\/em>.&nbsp; Similarly, a woman may be <em>motzee<\/em> a man in any <em>mitzvah<\/em> that she is equally obligated to perform (e.g. <em>Chanukah<\/em> candles, the <em>brocha<\/em> on food that she is also eating).However, she may not be <em>motzee<\/em> him in <em>mitzvos<\/em> from which she is exempt (e.g. <em>Shofar<\/em>, <em>brocha<\/em> on <em>Sukkah<\/em>), or <em>mitzvos<\/em> from which she is possibly exempt (e.g. <em>Havdalah<\/em>, <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>).<a id=\"_ftnref30\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn30\" name=\"_ftnref30\"><sup>30<\/sup><\/a><\/p>\n<p>E.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong><em>Differences Between Kiddush on Friday Night and Shabbos Day <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>If one does not have (or is unable to drink) wine or grape juice<\/strong>, the following <em>halachos<\/em> apply:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Friday Night<\/strong><a id=\"_ftnref31\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn31\" name=\"_ftnref31\"><sup>31<\/sup><\/a> \u2013 One may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>challos<\/em>.&nbsp; The procedure is as follows:&nbsp; Wash and recite \u201c<em>Al Netilas Yadayim<\/em>.\u201d&nbsp; Recite the entire <em>Kiddush <\/em>on the <em>lechem mishne<\/em>, replacing the <em>brocha<\/em> of \u201c<em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>\u201d with \u201c<em>Hamotzi Lechem Min Ha\u2019aretz<\/em>.\u201d<a id=\"_ftnref32\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn32\" name=\"_ftnref32\"><sup>32<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; After <em>Kiddush<\/em>, cut and eat the <em>challah<\/em>.&nbsp; If one does not have full <em>challos<\/em>, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on regular bread (even slices).<br \/>\nb.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong><em>Shabbos<\/em> Day<\/strong><a id=\"_ftnref33\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn33\" name=\"_ftnref33\"><sup>33<\/sup><\/a> \u2013 <em>Kiddush<\/em> may not be recited on <em>challos<\/em> or bread.&nbsp; One may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on a <em>revi\u2019is<\/em> of <em>chamar medina<\/em>, ideally an alcoholic beverage including schnapps<a id=\"_ftnref34\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn34\" name=\"_ftnref34\"><sup>34<\/sup><\/a> or beer.&nbsp; If these are not available, one may use coffee or iced tea<a id=\"_ftnref35\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn35\" name=\"_ftnref35\"><sup>35<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; and must drink at least a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em>.&nbsp; The <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Shehakol<\/em> is recited when using <em>chamar medina<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong> Time <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Friday<\/strong> <strong>Night<\/strong> <strong>&#8211;<\/strong> &nbsp;Ideally, <em>Kiddush<\/em> should be recited as soon as one comes home from <em>shul<\/em> on Friday night.<a id=\"_ftnref36\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn36\" name=\"_ftnref36\"><sup>36<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; The earliest time to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on Friday afternoon is <em>Plag Hamincha,<a id=\"_ftnref37\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn37\" name=\"_ftnref37\"><sup>37<\/sup><\/a><\/em> which is one and a quarter <em>halachic<\/em> hours<a id=\"_ftnref38\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn38\" name=\"_ftnref38\"><sup>38<\/sup><\/a> before sunset.<a id=\"_ftnref39\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn39\" name=\"_ftnref39\"><sup>39<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; The latest time to say the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">entire<\/span> <em>Kiddush<\/em> is dawn on <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning.&nbsp; If one was unable to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> at night, one must say <em>Kiddush<\/em> during the day.&nbsp; He should <em>daven<\/em> <em>Shachris<\/em> (after sunrise or, if necessary, after dawn) and then recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> without <em>Vayechulu<\/em> (i.e. begin <em>Kiddush<\/em> with <em>Savri<\/em> \u2026 <em>Borai P\u2019ri Hagefen<\/em>).&nbsp; If necessary, one may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> (without \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d) until sunset<a id=\"_ftnref40\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn40\" name=\"_ftnref40\"><sup>40<\/sup><\/a> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> afternoon, and immediately eat the <em>seudah<\/em>.&nbsp; If one recited the night <em>Kiddush<\/em> during the day, he does not have to recite <em>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/em>.<br \/>\n<em>b.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/strong><\/em> &#8211; This is <em>Kiddush <\/em>recitedduring the day (when regular <em>Kiddush<\/em> was recited at night). It may be said from any time after <em>Shachris<\/em> until sunset.&nbsp; This <em>Kiddush<\/em> consists of <em>pesukim<\/em> (e.g. <em>V\u2019shamru, Al Kain Bayrach), Savri,<\/em> and <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>. One should follow his family\u2019s custom regarding which <em>pesukim<\/em> to say.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3.&nbsp;&nbsp; <strong>Position &#8211;<\/strong> There are various customs regarding how <em>Kiddush<\/em> is recited.&nbsp; One should follow his family\u2019s custom.&nbsp; The reasons for standing or sitting on Friday night are as follows:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\">a.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Standing \u2013 \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d is <em>aidus<\/em> (testimony) that <em>Hashem<\/em> created the world and rested on <em>Shabbos<\/em>.&nbsp; Just as witnesses stand before <em>Bais Din<\/em> when testifying, similarly some stand for this \u201c<em>aidus<\/em>\u201d and remain standing while reciting the entire <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<br \/>\nb.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Sitting \u2013 When being <em>motzee<\/em> others, everyone is joined together for that moment.&nbsp; This is known as a \u201c<em>kviyus<\/em>.\u201d&nbsp; When everyone sits together, there is a stronger sense of unity of purpose and <em>kviyus<\/em>.<br \/>\nc.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Some stand for <em>Vayechulu<\/em> because of <em>aidus<\/em> and then sit down for the rest of <em>Kiddush<\/em> for <em>kviyus<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">During the day, there are two customs.&nbsp; Some people have a custom to stand when reciting<br \/>\n<em>Kiddusha Rabbah<\/em>, while others have a custom to sit.&nbsp; One should follow his family custom.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">4.<strong>&nbsp;&nbsp; Eating Before Kiddush &#8211;<\/strong> On Friday night, once <em>Shabbos<\/em> begins,<a id=\"_ftnref41\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn41\" name=\"_ftnref41\"><sup>41<\/sup><\/a> one may not eat or drink before <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; On <em>Shabbos<\/em> morning, men may drink water, tea or coffee before <em>Shachris <\/em>(after <em>brochos<\/em>), but may not eat and may not drink \u201c<em>chashuva<\/em> beverages\u201d (e.g. alcoholic beverages) unless they are required for health purposes.&nbsp; After <em>Shachris<\/em>, one may not eat or drink until after <em>Kiddush<\/em>.A woman who normally <em>davens<\/em> may eat or drink before <em>davening<\/em> after reciting morning <em>brochos<\/em>.&nbsp; According to some <em>Poskim<\/em>,<a id=\"_ftnref42\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn42\" name=\"_ftnref42\"><sup>42<\/sup><\/a> on <em>Shabbos<\/em> if she needs to eat before davening, she is not required to recite Kiddush at that time.&nbsp; Once she has completed <em>davening<\/em> <em>Shachris, <\/em>she must hear <em>Kiddush<\/em> before eating or drinking.<\/p>\n<p>F.&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Generally, the <em>halachos<\/em> of <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em> are similar to those of <em>Shabbos<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref43\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn43\" name=\"_ftnref43\"><sup>43<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; One follows the special <em>nusach<\/em> for <em>Yom Tov<\/em> as found in the <em>Siddur<\/em> or <em>Machzor<\/em>.&nbsp; \u201c<em>Shehecheyanu<\/em>\u201d is said following <em>Kiddush<\/em>, with the exception of the last two nights of <em>Pesach<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref44\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn44\" name=\"_ftnref44\"><sup>44<\/sup><\/a><br \/>\nWhen <em>Yom Tov<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em>, the <em>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/em> with \u201c<em>Vayechulu<\/em>\u201d and the special <em>Shabbos<\/em> additions are recited. When <em>Yom Tov<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, <em>Kiddush<\/em> and <em>Havdalah<\/em> are recited on the same cup of wine.&nbsp; The acronym used to remember the order is <em>YaKNeHaZ<\/em>:&nbsp; <strong><em>Yayin<\/em><\/strong> (wine) &#8211; the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>; <strong><em>Kiddush<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; the regular <em>nusach<\/em> of <em>Yom Tov Kiddush<\/em>; <strong><em>Ner<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; <em>Borei Me\u2019orai Ha\u2019aish;<\/em><a id=\"_ftnref45\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn45\" name=\"_ftnref45\"><sup>45<\/sup><\/a> <strong><em>Havdalah<\/em><\/strong>&#8211; A special <em>brocha<\/em> of &nbsp;<em>Havdalah<\/em> for <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em> going into <em>Yom Tov<\/em>; <strong><em>Z\u2019man<\/em><\/strong>&#8211; the <em>brocha<\/em> of <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em>.<a id=\"_ftnref46\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftn46\" name=\"_ftnref46\"><sup>46<\/sup><\/a>&nbsp; There are no <em>b\u2019samim<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Whenever the word \u201c<em>Kiddush<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>kodesh<\/em>\u201d is used, it indicates holiness and separation.&nbsp; For example, the place of the \u201c<em>Kodesh HaKedoshim<\/em>\u201d in the <em>Bais Hamikdash<\/em> remains the holiest of sites that is set apart from all other places on earth.&nbsp; When we, as <em>Yidden<\/em>, recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> every <em>Shabbos<\/em> we reflect upon the holiness of the day, as well as how the Jewish people have remained sanctified and separated from the other nations of the world.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">In our modern world filled with ATMs, cell phones, instant messaging and MP3s, it is <em>Klal Yisroel<\/em> who emulates the <em>Ribono Shel Olam<\/em> when we stop all of our work for <em>Shabbos<\/em>.&nbsp; The cup of <em>Kiddush<\/em> wine&nbsp;symbolizes our responsibility to sanctify everything around us. That is what <em>Shabbos<\/em> is all about.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div id=\"ftn1\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">1<\/a> It should be noted that the melody of <em>Kiddush<\/em> for all of the <em>Shalosh Regalim<\/em> is also the tune used elsewhere during each <em>z\u2019man<\/em> of <em>Yom Tov<\/em>.&nbsp; On <em>Shavuos<\/em> (Z<em>man Matan Torasainu<\/em>), it is also used for <em>Akdamus<\/em>.&nbsp; On <em>Simchas Torah<\/em> (Z<em>man Simchasainu<\/em>), it is also used when calling up the <em>Chosson Torah<\/em> and <em>Chosson Beraishis<\/em> (\u201c<em>Mairshus<\/em>\u201d).&nbsp; On <em>Pesach<\/em> (Z<em>man Chairusainu<\/em>), some also use this tune during the <em>Hagaddah<\/em> for \u201c<em>Lefeechach<\/em>\u201d and the <em>brocha<\/em> of \u201c<em>Asher Ga\u2019alanu.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn2\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn2\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">2<\/a> The <em>Rambam<\/em> (<em>Hilchos Shabbos<\/em> 29:1) writes that the obligation to remember <em>Shabbos<\/em> is both at the beginning and the end of <em>Shabbos<\/em>.&nbsp; Technically, <em>Havdalah<\/em> is also a \u201c<em>Kiddush<\/em>\u201d for the end of <em>Shabbos<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn3\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn3\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">3<\/a> See <em>Tosfos Nazir<\/em> 4a, \u201c<em>my hee.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp; <em>Tosfos Pesachim<\/em> 106a \u201c<em>zochrayhu<\/em>\u201d states two opinions: 1) the cup of wine is <em>d\u2019Rabonon<\/em>;&nbsp; 2) the cup of wine is <em>d\u2019Oraysa<\/em>, but the drinking of it is <em>d\u2019Rabonon<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn4\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn4\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">4<\/a> There are slight differences between <em>nuschaos<\/em> (i.e. whether certain words are said). One should follow his family custom.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn5\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn5\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">5<\/a> There is a dispute as to whether women are obligated to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>.&nbsp; The custom is to follow those who rule that they are obligated.&nbsp; For a full discussion, see <em>Shemiras Shabbos K\u2019hilchasa<\/em> (<em>S.S.K.<\/em>) Ch. 47 footnote 26.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn6\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn6\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">6<\/a> The wine cup should also not be <em>pogum<\/em> (i.e. this wine should not have been drunk from).&nbsp; For a full discussion, see <em>S.S.K. <\/em>47:15.&nbsp; There is a <em>hiddur <\/em>(best way to perform the <em>mitzvah<\/em>)&nbsp; to use non-<em>mevushal<\/em> (uncooked) wine; however, <em>mevushal<\/em> wine may also be used.&nbsp; When using non-<em>mevushal<\/em> wine, one must be careful that gentiles and non-observant Jews do not come into contact with the wine.&nbsp; One should preferably not use wine which was left uncovered for several hours (<em>megulah<\/em>) &#8211; see <em>Kitzur Shulchan Aruch<\/em> 77:5.&nbsp; Some are <em>mehadar<\/em> to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> on red wine &#8211; see <em>Mishna Brura<\/em> (<em>M.B.<\/em>) 272:10.&nbsp; See also <em>Rama<\/em> 175:2 and <em>M.B.<\/em> 175:13 regarding white wine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn7\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn7\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">7<\/a> If wine and grape juice are not available, there may be other options as will be discussed in Section E.1.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn8\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn8\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref8\" name=\"_ftn8\">8<\/a> For a further discussion regarding <em>halachic<\/em> measurements, see the Autumn 1998 issue of <em>Kashrus<\/em> Kurrents, \u201cGuide to <em>Halachic<\/em> Measurements,\u201davailable a by calling the Star-K office.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn9\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn9\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref9\" name=\"_ftn9\">9<\/a> This is in fulfillment of \u201c<em>Hisna\u2019eh B\u2019mitzvos,<\/em>\u201d that we derive from the <em>passuk<\/em> of \u201c<em>Zeh Kaylee V\u2019anvahu.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn10\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn10\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref10\" name=\"_ftn10\">10<\/a> This is the <em>shiur k\u2019dai shtiyas revi\u2019is (psak <\/em>of <em>HaRav<\/em> Moshe Heinemann<em>, shlita)<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn11\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn11\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref11\" name=\"_ftn11\">11<\/a> The lenient opinion for <em>k\u2019dai achilas pras<\/em>.&nbsp; See <em>S.S.K.<\/em> 48:10.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn12\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn12\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref12\" name=\"_ftn12\">12<\/a> The ideal way to distribute <em>Kiddush<\/em> is as follows:&nbsp; After the completion of <em>Kiddush<\/em>, the <em>mekadesh<\/em> pours the wine from the <em>becher<\/em> into another cup.&nbsp; He then drinks a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> from the <em>becher,<\/em> and the wine in the other cup is distributed.&nbsp; If a husband and wife are eating alone, and the wife is a <em>niddah<\/em>, the husband should either 1) put his cup down after drinking a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> and his wife drinks from that cup, or 2) pour wine into another cup and drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> from that cup.&nbsp; His wife should then drink from the <em>becher<\/em> that he has put down.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn13\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn13\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref13\" name=\"_ftn13\">13<\/a> Children age 6 and above can be counted in this drinking.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn14\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn14\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref14\" name=\"_ftn14\">14<\/a> Within the time of <em>k\u2019dai achilas pras<\/em>.&nbsp; For a full discussion, see <em>Shulchan Aruch OC<\/em> 271:13 &amp; 14 and the <em>Mishna Brura<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn15\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn15\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref15\" name=\"_ftn15\">15<\/a> Without <em>da\u2019as<\/em>, one may not switch rooms.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn16\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn16\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref16\" name=\"_ftn16\">16<\/a> See <em>Biur Halacha<\/em> 273:1 \u201c<em>v\u2019chain<\/em>\u201d and <em>S.S.K<\/em>. 54:9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn17\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn17\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref17\" name=\"_ftn17\">17<\/a> This is very common on <em>Shabbos<\/em> day in <em>shul<\/em>.&nbsp; <em>L\u2019halachah<\/em>, such <em>Mezonos<\/em> products constitute \u201c<em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>\u201d on Friday night, if necessary.&nbsp; See <em>S.S.K<\/em>. 54:22.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn18\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn18\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref18\" name=\"_ftn18\">18<\/a> <em>M.B.<\/em> 273:25.&nbsp; <em>Matzoh<\/em> meal cake is also \u201c<em>B<\/em>\u2019M<em>akom seudah.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp; However, potato starch cakes and rice products, such as \u201cRice Krispies Treats,\u201d can not be used for <em>Kiddush<\/em> <em>B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn19\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn19\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref19\" name=\"_ftn19\">19<\/a> When hearing <em>Kiddush<\/em>, drink a <em>revi&#8217;is<\/em>.&nbsp;When reciting&nbsp;<em>Kiddush<\/em>, drink 1.51 <em>revi\u2019is<\/em>.(i.e. slightly more than a half-<em>reviis <\/em>to be <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> and then another reviis for <em>b\u2019makom \u201cseuda<\/em>\u201d) of wine or grape juice (<em>S.S.K.<\/em>&nbsp;54:23).&nbsp; If one becomes ill from grain and wine products, he should eat fruits in order to have <em>Kiddush B\u2019Makom seudah<\/em> (<em>Shiltay Gibborim<\/em> as quoted in M.B. 273:26<em>).<\/em> It is preferable that the fruit be cooked (see <em>Kitzur Shulchan Aruch<\/em> 77:16).&nbsp; One should&nbsp; rely on this only if it is a major <em>sha\u2019as hadechak<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn20\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn20\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref20\" name=\"_ftn20\">20<\/a> About the size of a golf ball or roll of quarters.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn21\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn21\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref21\" name=\"_ftn21\">21<\/a> Friday night in <em>shul<\/em>, one is not <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> recited during <em>Maariv<\/em>.&nbsp; This <em>Kiddush<\/em> is an old <em>minhag<\/em> (custom) that was established when guests ate in the <em>shul<\/em>.&nbsp; The custom is to give this wine to children under the age of <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em>.&nbsp; At least one child should be a \u201c<em>bar chinuch,<\/em>\u201d over 6 or 7 years old.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn22\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn22\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref22\" name=\"_ftn22\">22<\/a> Men and women must have <em>lechem mishne<\/em> at the three <em>Shabbos<\/em> meals.&nbsp; See <em>Shulchan Aruch O.C.<\/em> 274:1. Additional guidelines regarding <em>seudah Shlishis<\/em> are addressed in <em>Rama O.C.<\/em> 291:4.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn23\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn23\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref23\" name=\"_ftn23\">23<\/a> <em>Shomaya K\u2019ona<\/em> is not unique to <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; When one hears <em>Shofar<\/em> or <em>Megillah<\/em>, one is <em>yotzai<\/em> with the principle of <em>Shomaya K<\/em>\u2019<em>ona<\/em>.&nbsp; For a thorough discussion of this topic, see <em>Sefer Shaarei Shmiya <\/em>by <em>HaRav<\/em> Mordechai Shuchatowitz, <em>shlita<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn24\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn24\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref24\" name=\"_ftn24\">24<\/a> <em>M.B.<\/em> 214:3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn25\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn25\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref25\" name=\"_ftn25\">25<\/a> If he said something that pertains to <em>Kiddush<\/em> (e.g. when necessary, he may say \u201cWe need little cups to give everyone <em>Kiddush<\/em>\u201d), he need not repeat <em>Borai Pri Hagafen<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn26\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn26\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref26\" name=\"_ftn26\">26<\/a> This means that he recites <em>Kiddush<\/em> with the intent that others should be \u201c<em>yotzai<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn27\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn27\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref27\" name=\"_ftn27\">27<\/a> In this case, if someone recited <em>Kiddush<\/em> only for \u201chis family\u201d, and someone else was listening, the other listener would not be <em>yotzai<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn28\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn28\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref28\" name=\"_ftn28\">28<\/a> One can be <em>motzee<\/em> others, even if he has been <em>yotzai Kiddush<\/em> already.&nbsp; For example, one who was <em>yotzai<\/em> at a \u201c<em>shul Kiddush<\/em>\u201d may recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> for his family at home, even though he was already <em>yotzai<\/em>.&nbsp; For an extensive discussion, see <em>Biur Halachah<\/em> 271:1 <em>meyad<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn29\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn29\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref29\" name=\"_ftn29\">29<\/a> It should be noted that a <em>bochur<\/em> who recently became <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em> should not be <em>motzee<\/em> adults in <em>mitzvos<\/em> that have a <em>Torah<\/em> obligation (e.g. <em>Kiddush<\/em> on Friday night).&nbsp; It is for this reason that <em>Bar Mitzvah<\/em> boys do not <em>lain<\/em> <em>Parshas<\/em> <em>Zachor<\/em> or blow <em>shofar<\/em> on <em>Rosh Hashana<\/em> for others.&nbsp; Under normal circumstances, they may be <em>motzee<\/em> adults only in <em>mitzvos<\/em> d\u2019<em>rabanan<\/em> (regular <em>laining<\/em>, <em>chazaras hashatz<\/em>, etc.)&nbsp; The reason for this is beyond the scope of this discussion.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn30\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn30\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref30\" name=\"_ftn30\">30<\/a> Although women are accustomed to hear <em>Havdalah<\/em> after <em>Shabbos<\/em> and <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, as well as <em>Kiddush<\/em> on <em>Yom Tov<\/em>, there is a question as to the status of their obligation.&nbsp; The issue relates to the parameters of <em>mitzvos asei shehaz\u2019man grama<\/em> \u2013 positive <em>mitzvos<\/em> bound by time, a topic beyond the scope of this article. Hence, they cannot be <em>motzee<\/em> men who are definitively obligated.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn31\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn31\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref31\" name=\"_ftn31\">31<\/a> The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply to <em>Yom Tov<\/em> night.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn32\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn32\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref32\" name=\"_ftn32\">32<\/a> The method of holding the <em>challos <\/em>in this case is discussed in <em>M.B.<\/em> 271:41.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn33\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn33\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref33\" name=\"_ftn33\">33<\/a> The same <em>halachos<\/em> apply to <em>Yom Tov<\/em> during the day.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn34\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn34\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref34\" name=\"_ftn34\">34<\/a> When reciting <em>Kiddush<\/em> on schnapps, one should use a cup that holds a <em>revi\u2019is<\/em> and drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> (as discussed above, Section B-3).&nbsp; One who wishes to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> using a shot glass (i.e. 1 fl. oz. cup) should consult his <em>Rav<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn35\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn35\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref35\" name=\"_ftn35\">35<\/a> See <em>Igros Moshe O.C.<\/em> 2:75 and <em>Aruch Hashulchan O.C.<\/em> 296:18.&nbsp; The advantage of iced tea over hot tea is that one can easily drink a <em>m\u2019lo lugmav<\/em> quickly enough <em>k\u2019dai shtiyas revi\u2019is<\/em> (see <em>Mikrai Kodesh-Pesach<\/em> 47:3).&nbsp; When necessary, <em>chamar medina<\/em> may also be used for <em>Havdalah<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn36\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn36\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref36\" name=\"_ftn36\">36<\/a> Regarding when it is necessary to repeat <em>Shema<\/em> and count <em>Sefiras Ha\u2019omer<\/em> before <em>Kiddush<\/em>, see <em>S.S.K.<\/em> 47:22 and 52:5.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn37\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn37\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref37\" name=\"_ftn37\">37<\/a> When <em>Asara B\u2019Teves<\/em> (or any private fast) occurs on Friday, one must wait until <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em>.&nbsp; This case, and <em>Taanis Bechorim<\/em> for those who fast all day on <em>Erev Pesach<\/em>,are the only regular fasts that come to an end with the recitation of <em>Kiddush<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn38\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn38\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref38\" name=\"_ftn38\">38<\/a> This time is based on the length of the day when 43\/48 of the time between sunrise and sunset has elapsed.&nbsp; In the United States in the winter, this is often less than one clock hour before sunset; in the summer it is 1 \u00bd &#8211; 2 hours before sunset.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn39\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn39\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref39\" name=\"_ftn39\">39<\/a> The night <em>Kiddush<\/em> of <em>Yom Tov<\/em> may also be said after <em>plag hamincha<\/em>,<em> l\u2019chatchila<\/em>, only on the following <em>Yomin Tovim<\/em>:&nbsp;&nbsp; 1) the seventh night of <em>Pesach<\/em>, 2) when the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em> and 3) when the second night of <em>Shavuos<\/em> occurs on <em>Shabbos<\/em>.&nbsp; One should not recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> before <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> (before it is dark and three stars are visible) on any other night of <em>Yom Tov<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn40\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn40\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref40\" name=\"_ftn40\">40<\/a> This should only be done <em>b\u2019shaas hadchak<\/em>.&nbsp; If one was unable to recite <em>Kiddush<\/em> until after sunset on <em>Shabbos<\/em> afternoon, one should still say it until <em>Tzais Hakochavim<\/em> without <em>Shaim U<\/em>\u2019<em>Malchus<\/em> (i.e. say <em>Boruch Asher Kidshanu v<\/em>\u2019<em>ratza banu<\/em> \u2026 <em>Boruch mekadesh HaShabbos<\/em>).&nbsp; See <em>M.B.<\/em> 271:39.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn41\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn41\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref41\" name=\"_ftn41\">41<\/a> <em>Shabbos<\/em> begins either because the sun has set, or because an individual has been <em>mikabel Shabbos<\/em> by lighting candles or during <em>davening<\/em> (e.g. by saying <em>Bo\u2019ee B\u2019Shalom<\/em> of <em>L\u2019cha Dodi<\/em>).&nbsp; A woman who is thirsty may drink water after lighting candles if it is still before sunset (<em>S.S.K.<\/em> 43:46).&nbsp; Before <em>Shabbos<\/em>, one may not begin a <em>Hamotzee<\/em> meal from the 10th hour of the day (3 <em>halachic<\/em> hours before sunset) so as not to suppress one\u2019s appetite.&nbsp; One may, however, eat cake or other <em>Mezonos<\/em>. On <em>Erev<\/em> <em>Pesach<\/em>, one may not even eat <em>Mezonos<\/em> after the 10th hour.&nbsp; Similarly, men may not eat Mezonos after the 10th hour on <em>Erev Sukkos<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn42\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn42\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref42\" name=\"_ftn42\">42<\/a> For the various details regarding this <em>halachah<\/em>, see <em>Machze Eliyahu<\/em> 33:3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn43\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn43\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref43\" name=\"_ftn43\">43<\/a> However, on the <em>Seder<\/em> night the <em>seudah<\/em> does not immediately follow <em>Kiddush<\/em> (due to <em>Maggid<\/em>, etc.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn44\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn44\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref44\" name=\"_ftn44\">44 <\/a> On the second night of <em>Rosh Hashana<\/em>, one should eat a new fruit immediately after <em>Kiddush<\/em> or wear a new garment.&nbsp; On the first night of <em>Sukkos<\/em>, <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em> is recited after the <em>brocha<\/em> of&nbsp; \u201c<em>Layshev Basukkah,<\/em>\u201d and on the second night before \u201c<em>Layshev Basukkah.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp; When the second night of <em>Sukkos<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, the longest possible <em>Kiddush<\/em> is recited.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn45\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn45\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref45\" name=\"_ftn45\">45 <\/a> One should recite <em>Borei Meorei Ha\u2019aish<\/em> using the <em>Yom Tov<\/em> candles, putting them together side by side while upright. 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Alternatively, one may recite the <em>brochah<\/em> using a non-frosted incandescent light bulb which was turned on before <em>Shabbos<\/em> (or was turned on by a timer which was set before <em>Shabbos<\/em>).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"ftn46\">\n<p><a id=\"_ftn46\" title=\"\" href=\"#_ftnref46\" name=\"_ftn46\">46 <\/a> When the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>, the acronym of \u201c<em>YaKNeHa\u201d<\/em> would be applied as <em>Shehecheyanu<\/em> (<em>z\u2019man<\/em>) is not said.&nbsp; It should be noted that this case (i.e. when the last night of <em>Pesach<\/em> occurs on <em>Motzai Shabbos<\/em>) is the only time that <em>Kiddush<\/em> ends with \u201c<em>Kodesh<\/em>\u201d (<em>Hamavdil Bain Kodesh L&#8217;Kodesh<\/em>).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Published Winter 2009<\/p>\n<p>One of the most beautiful scenes in Yiddishkeit is the family gathered around the table for Kiddush,&nbsp; a special moment for which we wait all week.&nbsp; 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